Following five things should be followed and learned by everyone in life, These things made me to rethink life.
1. Don't take anything personally :
Your life is in your hand not in the hands of other people, if you are hurt by someone's action, don't take it too personally. Take it positively leave that person's words, realize that he doesn't know how to talk with others and especially with you. Take it calmly and move on with a smile but remember first to analyze what they have spoken.
2. Accept the Unexpected things:
In our life, we don't know what will happen and no one knows how it will happen .so be prepared for the situations not come to you, be ready for everything. Believe that everything has a solution.
3. Don't worry think about it :
One thing to remember is that everything is a passing cloud, whether it may be happy or sad. If you are feeling happy and enjoying everything then you will forget the value of happiness. so you need to go through every phase and situation. Everybody is different so create your view of thinking and find out the way to overcome the obstacles. To create it you need to make a plan about how you will be happy and what you want to do for that.
4. Don't be emotional :
If you follow the first one you will not become an emotional person. In my life I have seen one of the strongest person, he is none other than my father. I have never seen him emotionally. In every problematic situation, he will say only one thing " okay, we will find the solution to that, let me try ".Recently when I became emotional he said that "with you, I am there, I will support you and guide you but don't be emotional"
5. Fear of Death :
Life is not permanent. Don't fear to take challenges. Death is for only your body and it is to the physical part but not for your thoughts and feelings. So create your thoughts and feelings in a way that these should live after your death also.